London Gays · Meet. Mix. More.

Meet gay men.
Make more of London.

Good conversation, familiar faces and someone new to meet. Join our friendly, hosted socials in Soho and North London.

Come solo, bring a friend or join us for the first time. We’ll help you feel at home.

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London Gays members chatting at a hosted Soho social — **Your next hello starts here.**A Saturday afternoon upstairs at the Duke of Wellington.

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Your next social starts here

Pick a date, RSVP on Meetup and come along. Hosts are there to welcome people, introduce newcomers and keep the room easy to join.

Duke of Wellington socials: first floor reserved for London Gays, 10% off drinks during the meetup, and a chance to win a free drink in the icebreaker challenge.

Barnet Gays September Social - Gay Men in Barnet

Wed 16 Sep 2026, 18:30 to 20:30

Barnet, London - venue details on Meetup

A relaxed London Gays social for gay men in and around Barnet. Booking and latest details are handled on Meetup.

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Barnet Gays October Social - Gay Men in Barnet

Wed 7 Oct 2026, 18:30 to 20:30

Barnet, London - venue details on Meetup

A relaxed London Gays social for gay men in and around Barnet. Booking and latest details are handled on Meetup.

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London Gays Saturday Social - Gay Men's Social in London

Sat 10 Oct 2026, 15:00 to 18:00

The Duke of Wellington, Soho

A relaxed London Gays social for gay men in London. Booking and latest details are handled on Meetup.

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Community snapshot

Established in 2015 and still growing

A community built one hello at a time. Join newcomers and regulars for friendly, hosted socials.

Established 2015

3,910 members
on Meetup

Come soloA hosted welcome for newcomers

200+
meetups hosted since 2015

50-60
guys at a typical main social

4.7/5
overall Meetup rating
★★★★★
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2015
bringing gay men together in London

Coming on your own?

That is completely normal. Lots of people arrive solo. Say hello to a host when you arrive and we will help you settle in, meet a few people and find your feet.

Friendly welcome at the door.
Relaxed conversations, not speed dating.
A mix of ages, backgrounds, first-timers and regulars.

Why people come back

Our Meetup rating is 4.7 out of 5. Read members’ feedback and get a feel for the group before you come along.

People come back because the room feels easy to join, the format is simple, and familiar faces start to build over time.

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Safety and respect

We want events to feel relaxed, respectful and safe. Be kind, keep an open mind, and only RSVP when you are reasonably sure you can attend.

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